2 Samuel 13:2
Amnon was sick with frustration over his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed implausible for him to do anything to her.
Berean Standard Bible
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Study note
Setting — The narrator records Amnon’s physical and emotional state at the moment his initial love hardens into fixated obsession over his half-sister Tamar. This description precedes any dialogue or counsel, marking the precise point where desire becomes paralyzing.
The words — The Hebrew root יָצַר (ya.tzar) denotes distress or anguish, paired with the reflexive verb חָלָה (cha.lah) meaning to make oneself sick. The text literally describes a man rendering himself ill through frustrated longing rather than seeking resolution.
The thread — This pattern of sickness from unfulfilled desire parallels Ahab’s sullen refusal to eat in 1 Kings 21:4 and the Song of Solomon’s declaration of being “sick with love” in Song of Solomon 5:8. The New Testament contrasts this trajectory with worldly sorrow in 2 Corinthians 7:10, which produces death rather than repentance.
Why it lands — The passage requires readers to identify how unaddressed obsession transforms desire into paralysis before external counsel or opportunity arises. It calls for immediate examination of longing that refuses moral restraint, tracing its path toward destruction.
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The Hebrew words
King James Version
And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her.
Cross-references
- 1 Kings 21:4 So Ahab went to his palace, sullen and angry because Naboth the Jezreelite had told him, “I will not give you the inheritance of my fathers.” He lay down on his bed, turned his face away, and refused to eat.
- Song of Solomon 5:8 O daughters of Jerusalem, I adjure you, if you find my beloved, tell him I am sick with love.
- 2 Corinthians 7:10 Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation without regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.