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2 Samuel 16:11
Then David said to Abishai and to all his servants, “Behold, my own son, my own flesh and blood, seeks my life. How much more, then, this Benjamite! Leave him alone and let him curse me, for the LORD has told him so.
Berean Standard Bible
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Study note
Setting — David addresses Abishai and his servants while fleeing Jerusalem, ordering them to leave Shimei to curse him. This occurs during Absalom’s rebellion when David’s own son actively seeks his life.
The words — The Hebrew הִנֵּה (hi.Neh) literally means “behold!” or “here!” and functions as a declarative marker of sudden realization. It signals David’s shift from flight to deliberate acceptance of the unfolding crisis.
The thread — The theme of permitted suffering from within one’s own circle appears in 2 Samuel 12:11, where God declares adversity will rise from David’s house, and parallels Genesis 45:5, which frames familial betrayal as serving a larger preservation.
Why it lands — The text records David’s explicit acknowledgment that the curse occurs only because the LORD permitted it, requiring the reader to recognize divine sovereignty over human hostility. It demands active restraint and submission rather than immediate retaliation or demand for deliverance.
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The Hebrew words
King James Version
And David said to Abishai, and to all his servants, Behold, my son, which came forth of my bowels, seeketh my life: how much more now may this Benjamite do it? let him alone, and let him curse; for the Lord hath bidden him.
Cross-references
- Genesis 15:4 Then the word of the LORD came to Abram, saying, “This one will not be your heir, but one who comes from your own body will be your heir.”
- Genesis 45:5 And now, do not be distressed or angry with yourselves that you sold me into this place, because it was to save lives that God sent me before you.
- 2 Samuel 12:11 This is what the LORD says: ‘I will raise up adversity against you from your own house. Before your very eyes I will take your wives and give them to another, and he will lie with them in broad daylight.
- 2 Kings 19:37 One day, while he was worshiping in the temple of his god Nisroch, his sons Adrammelech and Sharezer put him to the sword and escaped to the land of Ararat. And his son Esar-haddon reigned in his place.
- 2 Chronicles 32:21 and the LORD sent an angel who annihilated every mighty man of valor and every leader and commander in the camp of the king of Assyria. So he withdrew to his own land in disgrace. And when he entered the temple of his god, some of his own sons struck him down with the sword.
- Isaiah 10:5 Woe to Assyria, the rod of My anger; the staff in their hands is My wrath.
- Ezekiel 14:9 But if the prophet is enticed to speak a message, then it was I the LORD who enticed him, and I will stretch out My hand against him and destroy him from among My people Israel.
- Ezekiel 20:25 I also gave them over to statutes that were not good and ordinances by which they could not live.
- Matthew 10:21 Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child; children will rise against their parents and have them put to death.
- 2 Samuel 17:1 Furthermore, Ahithophel said to Absalom, “Let me choose twelve thousand men and set out tonight in pursuit of David.