2 Samuel 16:17
“Is this the loyalty you show your friend?” Absalom replied. “Why did you not go with your friend?”
Berean Standard Bible
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Study note
Setting — After Absalom has already entered Jerusalem and taken the throne, he confronts Hushai, who has just sworn allegiance to him. Absalom demands to know why Hushai did not accompany David during his flight.
The words — Absalom pairs זֶה (zeh, “this”) with חַסְדְּךָ (chasdecha, “your loyalty”) to frame Hushai’s absence as a failure of covenantal faithfulness. He closes the rebuke with רֵעֶךָ (re'ekha, “your friend”) to highlight the perceived personal betrayal.
The thread — This accusatory structure mirrors 2 Samuel 19:25, where David asks Mephibosheth, “Why did you not go with me?” and echoes Deuteronomy 32:6, which questions how Israel repays the LORD. Both passages use the same rhetorical pattern to expose a breach of loyalty.
Why it lands — The text forces the reader to confront how political survival often masks broken relational commitments. It asks the reader to examine whether their own alliances are driven by genuine loyalty or by calculated self-preservation.
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The Hebrew words
King James Version
And Absalom said to Hushai, Is this thy kindness to thy friend? why wentest thou not with thy friend?
Cross-references
- 2 Samuel 19:25 And he came from Jerusalem to meet the king, who asked him, “Mephibosheth, why did you not go with me?”
- Deuteronomy 32:6 Is this how you repay the LORD, O foolish and senseless people? Is He not your Father and Creator? Has He not made you and established you?
- 2 Samuel 15:32 When David came to the summit, where he used to worship God, Hushai the Archite was there to meet him with his robe torn and dust on his head.
- Proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
- Proverbs 18:24 A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who stays closer than a brother.