Bible Strands

Genesis 29:26

Laban replied, “It is not our custom here to give the younger daughter in marriage before the older.

Berean Standard Bible

Follow its threads on the canvas →

Study note

Setting — Laban speaks to Jacob in the morning after the wedding feast, immediately after Jacob discovers he has been given Leah instead of Rachel.

The words — יֵעָשֶׂ֥ה (ye.'a.Seh) = it is done, and לָ/תֵ֥ת (la./Tet) = to give, framing the marriage arrangement as a fixed cultural practice rather than a negotiable transaction.

The thread — This primogeniture custom recurs in Deuteronomy 21:17, which legally codifies the firstborn's right, and in Genesis 25:31-32, where Esau's dismissal of his birthright highlights its cultural weight.

Why it lands — It requires a reader to accept that personal grievances or deceptions do not override established social contracts, and that covenant relationships function within binding customary frameworks rather than individual expectations.

Drafted by a language model from the text, its original words and its cross-references, then checked against them. It can still be wrong: open the verse in the app to report it.

The Hebrew words

King James Version

And Laban said, It must not be so done in our country, to give the younger before the firstborn.

People named

Laban