Bible Strands

Genesis 34:9

Intermarry with us; give us your daughters and take our daughters for yourselves.

Berean Standard Bible

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Study note

Setting — Hamor, speaking for himself and his son Shechem, addresses Jacob’s sons after Shechem demands Dinah as a wife. He proposes a reciprocal marriage alliance to formalize their relationship.

The words — The imperative הִתְחַתְּנוּ (hitḥatṯēnû) commands mutual intermarriage, followed by תִתְּנוּ (tittēnû) for giving daughters and תִקְחוּ (tiqḥû) for taking them. The syntax frames the proposal as a direct, symmetrical exchange of brides between the two families.

The thread — This reciprocal arrangement parallels the unchecked unions in Genesis 6:2 and stands in direct opposition to the covenant boundary in Deuteronomy 7:3. The narrative also echoes the marital tensions seen in Genesis 19:14 regarding Lot’s sons-in-law.

Why it lands — The text presents intermarriage as a structural exchange that merges social standing with cultural identity. Readers must assess whether such alliances strengthen a community or dilute its distinct covenant obligations.

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The Hebrew words

King James Version

And make ye marriages with us, and give your daughters unto us, and take our daughters unto you.

Cross-references