Genesis 34:9
Intermarry with us; give us your daughters and take our daughters for yourselves.
Berean Standard Bible
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Study note
Setting — Hamor, speaking for himself and his son Shechem, addresses Jacob’s sons after Shechem demands Dinah as a wife. He proposes a reciprocal marriage alliance to formalize their relationship.
The words — The imperative הִתְחַתְּנוּ (hitḥatṯēnû) commands mutual intermarriage, followed by תִתְּנוּ (tittēnû) for giving daughters and תִקְחוּ (tiqḥû) for taking them. The syntax frames the proposal as a direct, symmetrical exchange of brides between the two families.
The thread — This reciprocal arrangement parallels the unchecked unions in Genesis 6:2 and stands in direct opposition to the covenant boundary in Deuteronomy 7:3. The narrative also echoes the marital tensions seen in Genesis 19:14 regarding Lot’s sons-in-law.
Why it lands — The text presents intermarriage as a structural exchange that merges social standing with cultural identity. Readers must assess whether such alliances strengthen a community or dilute its distinct covenant obligations.
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The Hebrew words
King James Version
And make ye marriages with us, and give your daughters unto us, and take our daughters unto you.
Cross-references
- Deuteronomy 7:3 Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons,
- Genesis 6:2 the sons of God saw that the daughters of men were beautiful, and they took as wives whomever they chose.
- Genesis 19:14 So Lot went out and spoke to the sons-in-law who were pledged in marriage to his daughters. “Get up,” he said. “Get out of this place, for the LORD is about to destroy the city!” But his sons-in-law thought he was joking.
- Genesis 24:3 and I will have you swear by the LORD, the God of heaven and the God of earth, that you will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites among whom I am dwelling,
- Genesis 26:34 When Esau was forty years old, he took as his wives Judith daughter of Beeri the Hittite and Basemath daughter of Elon the Hittite.
- Genesis 27:46 Then Rebekah said to Isaac, “I am weary of my life because of these Hittite women. If Jacob takes a Hittite wife from among them, what good is my life?”