Job 19:17
My breath is repulsive to my wife, and I am loathsome to my own family.
Berean Standard Bible
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Study note
Setting — Job speaks from his own home to his immediate family and household during a period of total social collapse. He notes that his servant ignores his direct pleas, marking the complete breakdown of his former authority and support network.
The words — The Hebrew term זָרָה (Zarah) literally means "it is loathsome" and describes the wife's visceral reaction to Job. The phrase בִטְנִי (bitni), literally "my womb," functions as a metonym for his closest relatives or offspring.
The thread — The text records familial rejection in Job 2:9, where his wife challenges his integrity, and physical decay in Job 17:1, where he states his days are extinguished. The immediate context (Job 19:16, 18) extends this isolation to his ignored servants and the children who openly deride him.
Why it lands — The passage demands acknowledgment that severe suffering can systematically remove every human comfort and social standing. It asks the reader to observe how physical deterioration and relational abandonment compound a person's isolation before any divine response occurs.
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The Hebrew words
King James Version
My breath is strange to my wife, though I intreated for the children’s sake of mine own body.