Proverbs 25:17
Seldom set foot in your neighbor’s house, lest he grow weary and hate you.
Berean Standard Bible
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Study note
Setting — The author of the compiled proverbs addresses a general reader, placing this instruction between warnings against gluttony and false testimony. The counsel functions as practical boundary-setting within a broader wisdom framework.
The words — הֹקַ֣ר (ho.Kar) literally means "make rare," commanding the reader to limit visits. יִ֝שְׂבָּעֲ/ךָ֗ (yis.ba.'a./kha) literally means "he should be surfeited with you," stating the direct result of repeated intrusion.
The thread — The motif of visiting a neighbor’s house appears in Genesis 19:2, where guests request lodging, and Judges 19:18, where a traveler notes the absence of such hospitality. Romans 15:24 records a planned visit to a community to receive journey support, showing the same geographic movement used for different purposes.
Why it lands — The text commands readers to measure their presence in others’ homes to prevent relational exhaustion. It asks the reader to actively preserve goodwill by limiting visits rather than assuming unlimited access.
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The Hebrew words
King James Version
Withdraw thy foot from thy neighbour’s house; lest he be weary of thee, and so hate thee.
Cross-references
- Genesis 19:2 and said, “My lords, please turn aside into the house of your servant; wash your feet and spend the night. Then you can rise early and go on your way.” “No,” they answered, “we will spend the night in the square.”
- Judges 19:18 The Levite replied, “We are traveling from Bethlehem in Judah to the remote hill country of Ephraim, where I am from. I went to Bethlehem in Judah, and now I am going to the house of the LORD; but no one has taken me into his home,
- Romans 15:24 I hope to see you on my way to Spain. And after I have enjoyed your company for a while, you can equip me for my journey.