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Proverbs 3:12

for the LORD disciplines the one He loves, as does a father the son in whom he delights.

Berean Standard Bible

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Study note

Setting — The speaker is a wisdom teacher addressing a student as "son," immediately following an instruction not to reject divine correction. This verse serves as the foundational reason for accepting rebuke within the surrounding parental counsel.

The words — יוֹכִיחַ (yo.Khi.ach) translates literally to "he reproves" or "he disciplines," while יֶאֱהַ֣ב (ye.'e.Hav) means "he loves." The syntax directly links divine correction to the active verb of love rather than to wrath or rejection.

The thread — This motif appears in Deuteronomy 8:5, which equates God's discipline with a father's training of his son, and Revelation 3:19, which states "Those I love I rebuke and discipline." Proverbs 29:17 also extends the principle to human parenting, noting that corrected sons bring rest and delight.

Why it lands — The text asserts that divine correction is a factual marker of being loved, not a sign of abandonment. It requires the reader to reframe suffering and rebuke as evidence of relational standing rather than as grounds for resentment.

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The Hebrew words

כִּ֤יkiforאֶ֥ת'et<obj.>אֲשֶׁ֣ר'a.Sher[the one] whomיֶאֱהַ֣בye.'e.Havhe lovesיְהוָ֣הYah.wehYahwehיוֹכִ֑יחַyo.Khi.achhe reprovesוּ֝כְאָ֗בu./khe./'Avand/ like/ a fatherאֶת־'et-<obj.>בֵּ֥ןbena sonיִרְצֶֽה׃yir.Tzeh[whom] he is pleased with

King James Version

For whom the Lord loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son in whom he delighteth.

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