Bible Strands
Proverbs 4:3
When I was a son to my father, tender and the only child of my mother,
Berean Standard Bible
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Study note
Setting — The speaker addresses a collective group of sons, framing his instruction within a recollection of his own early life. He establishes this personal memory as the immediate context for his directive.
The words — The Hebrew term רַךְ (rakh) literally means "tender," while יָחִיד (ya-chid) translates to "only" or "alone," describing the speaker's vulnerable status as a single child.
The thread — This theme of youthful inexperience appears in 1 Chronicles 22:5 and 1 Chronicles 29:1, where Solomon is described as young and inexperienced before undertaking a major task. The concept of humility and lowliness is echoed in Romans 12:16, which commands believers to associate with the lowly and avoid conceit.
Why it lands — The text asks readers to acknowledge their own formative vulnerability and dependence before receiving instruction. It demands a posture of humility that recognizes wisdom must be received, not manufactured.
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The Hebrew words
King James Version
For I was my father’s son, tender and only beloved in the sight of my mother.
Cross-references
- 1 Chronicles 22:5 And David said, “My son Solomon is young and inexperienced, and the house to be built for the LORD must be exceedingly magnificent—famous and glorious throughout all lands. Therefore I must make preparations for it.” So David made lavish preparations before his death.
- 1 Chronicles 29:1 Then King David said to the whole assembly, “My son Solomon, the one whom God has chosen, is young and inexperienced. The task is great because this palace is not for man, but for the LORD God.
- Romans 12:16 Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but associate with the lowly. Do not be conceited.
- 2 Samuel 12:24 Then David comforted his wife Bathsheba, and he went to her and lay with her. So she gave birth to a son, and they named him Solomon. Now the LORD loved the child
- 1 Kings 1:13 Go at once to King David and say, ‘My lord the king, did you not swear to your maidservant, “Surely your son Solomon will reign after me, and he will sit on my throne”? Why then has Adonijah become king?’
- 1 Chronicles 3:5 and these sons were born to him in Jerusalem: Shimea, Shobab, Nathan, and Solomon. These four were born to him by Bathsheba daughter of Ammiel.
- Jeremiah 10:23 I know, O LORD, that a man’s way is not his own; no one who walks directs his own steps.
- Zechariah 12:10 Then I will pour out on the house of David and on the people of Jerusalem a spirit of grace and prayer, and they will look on Me, the One they have pierced. They will mourn for Him as one mourns for an only child, and grieve bitterly for Him as one grieves for a firstborn son.