Ephesians 5:33
Nevertheless, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Berean Standard Bible
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Study note
Setting — Paul addresses the Ephesian congregation, concluding his marital instructions immediately after explaining how the husband-wife union mirrors Christ and the church.
The words — The Greek term πλὴν (plēn) translates literally as "however" or "nevertheless," functioning as a direct transition from theological explanation to practical command. The word ἕκαστος (hekastos) means "each" or "every one," specifying that the directive applies individually to every reader rather than collectively.
The thread — The text commands wives to respect their husbands, a requirement paralleled by the call for a reverent demeanor in 1 Peter 3:2 and the royal decree for all women to honor their husbands in Esther 1:20. This instruction immediately follows the command for wives to submit to their husbands in Ephesians 5:22 and is grounded in the Christ-church mystery declared in Ephesians 5:32.
Why it lands — The passage explicitly requires husbands to love their wives with the same self-regard they naturally maintain, while simultaneously requiring wives to show respect to their husbands. It demands immediate, reciprocal action from both parties rather than abstract agreement.
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The Greek words
King James Version
Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Cross-references
- 1 Peter 3:2 when they see your pure and reverent demeanor.
- Esther 1:20 The edict the king issues will be heard throughout his vast kingdom—and so all women, from the least to the greatest, will honor their husbands.”
- Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.
- Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her
- Ephesians 5:28 In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
- Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
- Hebrews 12:9 Furthermore, we have all had earthly fathers who disciplined us, and we respected them. Should we not much more submit to the Father of our spirits and live?
- 1 Kings 1:31 Bathsheba bowed facedown in homage to the king and said, “May my lord King David live forever!”